tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5990976127339204216.post6265965619014745418..comments2017-01-28T17:19:05.707-05:00Comments on Fonzi & Erika: I criedErika Reneehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03377107028080937649noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5990976127339204216.post-62110983661631334762015-09-21T19:45:34.886-04:002015-09-21T19:45:34.886-04:00Thanks for commenting. I've told a few people ...Thanks for commenting. I've told a few people with not so talkative HoHs that they have to lose all distractions and pour out your heart and soul to him until he hears you. It's not easy and I've done it more than once. Don't give up. It's just as easy for them to lose their way as it is for us to lose oursErika Reneehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03377107028080937649noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5990976127339204216.post-71469155725175928692015-09-19T01:17:03.898-04:002015-09-19T01:17:03.898-04:00Hi Erika,
Thank you so much for sharing this. I&...Hi Erika,<br /><br />Thank you so much for sharing this. I'm sorry to hear what you are (were) going through, but feeling very much in the same boat right now, you've given me hope that if I open up to Eric, I might be able to hold onto our relationship a little while longer. Best of luck to you. AmyEric51Amy49https://www.blogger.com/profile/12407230888766565252noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5990976127339204216.post-24761328697326330212015-08-30T11:36:35.172-04:002015-08-30T11:36:35.172-04:00Well you know I can be a bit stubborn sometimes. I...Well you know I can be a bit stubborn sometimes. I can't always talk myself out of that destructive place and that leads to many of these very low points. I'm getting better at recognizing when I'm there and that's the start. Best I can do right now. Thanks for being a great friend when I'm there. Erika Reneehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03377107028080937649noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5990976127339204216.post-74489792872903677952015-08-30T11:34:12.824-04:002015-08-30T11:34:12.824-04:00Thanks for the kind words. It's not always eas...Thanks for the kind words. It's not always easy living inside my head but I'm learning slowly that no one else will ever understand unless I tell them. Erika Reneehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03377107028080937649noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5990976127339204216.post-6362645384599054542015-08-28T06:27:40.975-04:002015-08-28T06:27:40.975-04:00I wasn't going to comment as we have talked ab...I wasn't going to comment as we have talked about this at length, however I'd like to congratulate you for opening up here. I know all about those feelings you described that you found on your phone. I think many of us do, although I will say there are times after that I am happy he walked out the door, so I could breathe and just forget for a bit.<br /><br />As you know I also understand the part where you were afraid to bring up the conversation. NOT necessarily because you didn't want Fonzi to think you were in control, but because YOU had to let go of that fear. It is such a difficult thing as a submissive to understand all the nuances that go along with control~ especially how YOU feel about it.<br /><br />It has been my experience, and I hope it is yours in the not so distant future, that eventually all of my starting the conversation firsts, led to Barney starting to open up and 'see' things too. NOT all the time, but he is so much better.<br /><br />Keep plugging away as you always do Erika!<br /><br />Love<br />williewilliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01907855123777628267noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5990976127339204216.post-66638197507112368392015-08-28T05:02:18.419-04:002015-08-28T05:02:18.419-04:00Erika,
We don't always see eye to eye, and tha...Erika,<br />We don't always see eye to eye, and that's ok :)<br />But, I care very much for each person I know in this community.<br />So, when I started reading the beginning of this post it was like there was ice in my veins and thought "Oh no... no no... this isn't happening"<br /><br />Then when I read "I tried desperately to get him to open up to me. I wanted him to start a conversation...." Again I thought why do so many people do that. Each should feel that if there's something to say, just open up and share their feelings without waiting for the other person first. Each should feel they should, be or can be, the first.<br />Then as I continued to read I was relieved to see you had already come to that conclusion and as the post continued I was more and more relieved.<br /><br />Each bump in the road or pot-hole can be smoothed over or filled in with time, patience and of course... Communication.<br /><br />Again, I am sooooo relieved this post had a happy ending :)<br />Respectfully,<br />~ MrBB<br /><br /> MrBBSpankerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13157302499211539690noreply@blogger.com